Yesterday, as I was on my way out of Walmart, a little boy that appeared to be around 9 years old, walked toward me holding a cardboard box full of candy bars. "Excuse me Ms." he said shyly and hesitantly, "Would you like to buy a candy bar?" The people up ahead of me had already told the young seller no. But, for me, shooing him away was unthinkable.
You see, when I was younger, as a pastor's daughter, I would often have to sell candy and numerous other things, to raise money for the church. Most times, I hated it. Some people were so mean.
I vividly recall how nerve-wracking it was trying to get up the courage to solicit patronage. I would be extremely happy when someone purchased something from me. On the other hand, it was quite disappointing when they refused. So, as the boy stood there peering at me with pleading eyes, I flashed a big, friendly smile and said, "Of course I'll buy one!" He looked so relieved when I handed over that crisp dollar bill in exchange for that rice crispy chocolate bar.
Knowing what it felt like for me to once have been in the same shoes as that nervous little boy, was the very thing that made me respond with compassion.
I believe God allows us to go through things, not only for our growth and development, but also, so we can empathize with others and help them once we overcome.
I don't know what situation you might be struggling with today. Whatever it is, you've got to remind yourself that, through this, God is preparing you for ministry. You'll be able to reach back and draw from this experience in order to bring healing, deliverance, comfort, and relief to someone else. Just as I didn't shoo that child away because I know what it's like to be in his shoes, when you overcome this obstacle, you won't be so quick to dismiss someone else that may be hurting and in need.
You'll stop and take time to help.
It may be offering advice, an encouraging word, or simply a shoulder to cry on. Whatever the case, you'll possess what it takes to minister effectively.
So, I encourage you to be strong through the storm. And rather than focusing on how long you have to endure your trouble, extract the lessons from it... because one day, you'll be called upon to share those very same lessons with someone else.
As always, thanks for reading and until next time... may you be empowered to prosper!
Dianna Hobbs
