The idea of finding your place in the world and walking boldly in your calling is an exciting one, right? Of course it is! I talk about it all the time on this blog to thousands of women everyday. But you know what's interesting, we think about the exhilaration and triumph of fulfilling God's purpose and plan, without considering the sacrifices and heartaches that come along with that responsibility.
We somehow forget that we'll have to cut some ties. Inevitably, we must lose some people along the way... we have to release relationships with particular individuals we thought would be with us always. Now, if you read this blog all the time, you know I talk about this quite often. You may wonder why I do that... and will continue to do it.
Well, it's because far too many people expect to progress in their lives, without ever having to give up those unwholesome connections, and sever those toxic ties. But this isn't how life works.
"Far too many people expect to progress in their lives, without ever
having to give up those unwholesome connections, and sever those toxic
ties. But this isn't how life works..."
Think about it. Do you wear the same size clothing that you did when you were three years old? What about your shoes? What about the programs that you watch on TV? How about your taste in music and movies? Have they remained the same?
Chances are, you've greatly evolved over time. You've changed. Your tastes and preferences have morphed right along with your personality. As you mature, you don't want the same things. Your mentality evolves; as a result, your reality reflects that evolution.
Why then, do we not apply this practical lesson to human relationships? And why are we surprised when God calls us to release certain associations?
You see, there are some individuals who have stopped growing. They don't want to change. They're pleased to remain in the same place, and if you attempt to remain in their company, you will find that you are no longer compatible with them. This doesn't mean you don't love them. It just means you've outgrown them.
And that's OK.
As you move upward and onward, God will connect you with the right people--those who add to you, and are capable of assisting you in your quest to maximize your potential.
Thanks for reading, and until next time... may you be empowered to prosper!
Dianna Hobbs
www.eewmagazine.com
