Yesterday, as I was coming out of the store I ran into an old acquaintance from High School. Since I graduated from High School nearly 15 years ago, when I saw her I didn't immediately recognize her. It was her inquisitive look and focused stare, however, that grabbed my attention.
"What's your name?" she said, as she walked slowly toward me.
"Dianna Hobbs," I replied with a smile, trying my hardest to figure out who she was. Then, she proceeded to tell me her name and the name of the school we'd graduated from together. "Oh, my goodness!" I yelled out, "I haven't seen you in years!"
We embraced and laughed. "You look great," I said, as I proceeded to ask how she'd been doing.
"Well," she hesitated as I watched the smile melt away from her face. It was instantly replaced with a look of dismay and deep sadness. Through her gold-rimmed glasses, I could see the piercing agony in her eyes. I wondered why her countenance had changed so abruptly. The words she uttered next would let me know why.
"My husband just divorced me and left me unexpectedly with the children," she blurted out.
"I-I'm so sorry to hear that," I stammered nearly dropping my keys and my French Vanilla Cappuccino. I didn't expect her to say that. As you know, most times, when you ask someone how they're doing, they don't give anything other than a one-word generic response. Even when someone needs to, they're reluctant to expose their hidden pain.
"I was living out of state," she continued and now, my family just brought me back home to try to figure things out." Her eyes glazed over as she fought back tears. As I'm sure you can imagine, my heart broke for her. "I'm really at the lowest point in my life," she said sadly, before pausing for a moment.
"Mommy, who's this lady?" A small voice rang out. It was her young daughter walking in front her older brother, eying me curiously. Her mother didn't seem to notice that her daughter had just asked her a question; she was lost in the conversation. I quickly turned my attention back to my old classmate, praying silently as I listened. I knew she was distressed, distraught, and at the point of breaking down.
"I believe God had you to run into me today," I told her. I shared a few other things with her that the Lord placed on my heart. Once I got back to my car, I continued praying for her that God would uphold her through this difficult season.
Had I been too caught up in what I was on my way to do, or the fact that the whole thing was initially a bit awkward and off-putting, I could've missed what God wanted me to do in that moment. Although I was in a rush when I bumped into her, I knew she needed me to stop and listen... God wanted me to stop and listen too, and speak into her life as well.
Sometimes, I believe the Lord will interrupt the flow of your day and give you an impromptu assignment. But you have to be sensitive and obedient to Him in order to give Him a yes, whether comfortable or not.
Although I wasn't expecting a woman I had not seen in over a decade to begin opening up to me in a public parking lot outside of the store, I knew that our paths had crossed with purpose. She needed a listening ear... someone to pray for her...someone to care.
That experience yesterday impacted me and reminded me that we always have to be prepared for ministry. You don't know who needs you, or who's on the verge of an emotional collapse. You don't know when God will specifically assign you to someone that's broken and hurting. Who knows when you'll experience a brief encounter of the God-kind, that requires you to dispense with your plans and avail yourself to someone else?
Today, I admonish you to be open to whatever way the Lord wants to use you. That impromptu assignment just might change the course of someone else's life... even your own.
As always, thanks for reading, and until next time... may you be empowered to prosper!
Dianna Hobbs
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